Being a teenager is rough,painful and heart breaking this is the stage of our life that we start to face different life and love struggles, asking a lot of questions that only us can answer and understand properly. Most of the time we question our worth our value or are do we even look good? cause this stage of life we understand and try to fit in the standard of the society' most of the time they would say you're ugly cause your skin is dark, you're ugly cause you're fat, you're ugly cause you have a lot of acne and the gender basis of one another, mostly saying you're boy why would you wear make up or you're a boy why do you have a lot of girl friends? or most of the time you're a boy but you're to soft. This are just the standards of the society that we always want to fit in, a standard that won't even make us happy the standard that will never be acknowledge and wont define who we are.We start asking those silly and nonsense question especially as a teenager when we experience heartbreaks and immaturity we make quick and instant decisions not even thinking the consequences that might happen.But that just how it is and it's part of the process to be mature and to grow, one time my friend ask an advice from he and said " I am not happy anymore of what we have and i'm chatting to a new girl what should I do" love is not just about the happiness or the flattering moments you had, it's also about heartbreaks,sacrifices and  the rough time you choose to fight together relationship is also a partnership, a team that would always work together.And if you're not happy anymore about the relationship you're having with that person end it peacefully, cheating is never the answer on letting go a relationship always consider your partner,what would she feel if she knew you're cheating it can also affect her future relationship thinking she would always be cheated and that hurts more than breaking the truth to her. That's how immature us teenager was we never learn, we never listen but we certainly need to grow, sometimes together with our partner if we're sincere but mostly growing on our own and those heartbreaks take them as a blessing cause first you learn and you certainly would know what to do to your next relationship and second you would realize that you should fell in-love with yourself before anyone else we're still young and have a lot of things to do in our life the time for that love is not yet right now what we should focus the most is that how to plan our future thinking our careers and doing things that will make us happy not an early relationship that most of the time makes you paranoid and overthink start to live the life being a teenager cause we have a lot more to learn a lot more to experience and certainly this stage of our life is the craziest yet the best.We learn to love, to cry and to heal ourselves whenever we're hurt cause in the adult life it'll be much tougher let's enjoy being the immature who want to grow in process and the person that we'll become in the future.