Sometimes, people seek validation to someone not because they wanted the attention but because they want to feel that they are loved and secure to anyone who is around them. They made small gestures of appreciation through words and also in action. But to the fact, that words can impact someone else's life might also change their perspective about you and to themselves. 

So, today. I am going to tell you my experience of how this stranger approached me via messenger on facebook and how I encouraged her to be by herself. 

First, she chatted me and said "I wish all were loved, right?" I was startled by her messaged and I think carefully of what I should say to her to help with her problem/baggage that she is being through right now. So in my replied to her message was "If someone do not love you then that is not love." she was confused because she thought it was just the same kind of "love". I told her that "if you think love is full of pain and sorrow then that's not love." She wanted to know if "that is not love then what is it?" I asked her again on how she can define love but she replied "Happiness, I think?" The thought of me saying that (I see, she was still confused of what is the meaning of love.)and I give her some of my advice and say "If you're confused about love then it means you need to learn and love yourself first before anyone else. Because love starts within you." She was flabbergasted of what she just read and also start talking to me a little bit more about to herself. At first, she was hesitant until she opened up to me. She don't want to be misunderstood by everyone that's why she keeps it all into herself and she is slowly losing her identity because of what other people thinks of her. On the other hand, I gave her a courage and said that I do believe in her so she could start believing in herself. And finally she thanked me because she regained her energy due to those act of kindness thru words. 

Words can be vile but if we put words into grace I know somewhere out there, we can save people's lives. A small act of kindness is one of the underestimated ability that most people do. So often times, if some people tries to tear you apart, you are not the problem. They are the problem. 

My news for today is do not fear of what others think of you. You can only define yourself. If you cannot take all the pain that is fill inside of you. Reach out. You are important and you are worth fighting for. You are stronger than you think you are and I am glad that I can help her to let her out what she is bottling up within her. 

Y.O.U.R L.I.V.E.S M.A.T.T.E.R