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Gerald Sanoria

We live imperfectly, but we are happy.

Have you ever experienced deep pain, and you don't really know how to overcome it? And you feel no one can understand what the problem is facing you right now?
Believe me, you’re not alone.

We are living an imperfect life, only fairytales have a perfect life,but in reality, all of us have different problems in life, Different struggles. But the question is how we live our life, maybe we are experiencing this because of the decision we make in our life. Always keep in mind,in order to live your life to the fullest, Don't let other people decide for your life, it doesn't matter what other people say, don't do what you think people want you to do. They have their own opinion but the end of the day you are the only person who will be around for every moment of your life.
Also reduce regrets in your life, life is about taking the risk,you will not learn in life if you stay in your comfort zone, take a risk, there is always danger in life. But there are always rewards on it. 
Always learn in your experiences even if it's a bad experience or good. Always look forwards and don't live in the past, because your past is your training for future to work on. Always think about your past and future, but only live in the present. According to Edberg,H(2020)How to Live a Happy Life: 10 Things to Say Yes to Starting Today you should “Not clinging to the past and to the hurt that is there but to let it go and look to the now and the future is an essential thing to find more happiness in your life.”Retrieved from https://www.positivityblog.com/yes-happy-life/. Always keep your mind open, this is very important for you to grow. Remove all the negative thoughts in mind,learn to forgive others that hurt you,forgiving others is not that easy, but it is the best thing you can do in order to live peacefully. And lastly, always appreciate things even if they are small or big.learn to be contented in what you are, what things you have.