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Ghosting

Ghosting- this is millennial term for someone who been left by their partner without saying anything. 

Do you still remember the time you repeatedly asking yourself why? Like what happened? Maybe I said something wrong. Everyday you blame yourself for things left unclear. 

But you know what? It's really okay to admit that. 
Life is hard, and we can let it be. We have to let it be. It’s the only way to reach a place of acceptance with our new situation, our new set of circumstances, our new LIFE. Your life will be different, but it will be amazing.

And through this process, you will become a different person. You will become a person who knows herself. Who accepts herself. And who loves herself, just as she is, regardless of who else does or doesn’t choose to stay in her life. It will take time and tears, and fighting and scraping your way out of the depths of despair, but you will get there. ✨

No matter what happened. No matter how it ended. No matter how many bruises were formed from knees hitting the floor as you said prayers that seemed to go unanswered. They didn’t ACTUALLY go unanswered…It just takes growth and maturity and wisdom to realize that sometimes no is the most loving, gentle answer God can give. 

When you get older you will realized that...
the truth of the matter is, it was never really about them anyway. It was always about us and what we were meant to learn from them. It was always about us and who we were meant to BECOME as a result of having encountered them. 

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