Movie title: Through night and day

I adore Abi for being so sure about her love for Ben.
That's the kind of love we should settle for.
A love that is so sure of who you are and what you are capable of.
Trust was so visible and assurance was provided.
It takes a lot of courage to accept the past of our partners, but those people are the sole reason why you have a better person with you right now. 
Love someone who gives you a peace of mind.
I hope that these words are eye opener for all of us, never settle for someone that won't give you consistency and assurance.
Abi is an Ideal partner.
She understands that her love for Ben is secured and Ben is doing the same thing for Abi.
So be an Abi and settle for a Ben.
This is a movie but this happens in real life too, I'm so sad that some of us never experienced this kind of love and peace from our partners.
But this kind of love exist, not some fairytale kind of love. But a real one.
Abi allowed Ben to stay for weeks for Jen not because she's dying, but because Abi is aware that without Jen, Ben would never be a great partner and person for her too.

Our pasts are part of us too, Isn't it? We're all exes of somebody. 
Sometimes we are Jen, or Ben. But I hope we all became Abi.