You're one of those who feel down these days? Wanna have a long time to be glad? We just want to be content and disdainful now. But it's certainly not always easy because we've filled our lives with parasites on behalf of our companions. You must be chopped off: You are facing the barriers, and people around you are likely to annoy you, voicing their false worries. They're there to steal your life's resources. You access negativity: Then they hit a point where they begin to affect you negatively. The worst thing is that we sometimes don't understand why this stage is going on. We'll blame us for that. Here are several steps to eliminate these parasites from your lives: • Define limits: it is often apparent that through any contact we understand the person's intent. If these experiences with others cross your mental limits, know that they are there to annoy you. Therefore, set limits and don't assign their presence significance. To eliminate harmful people from your life means to decrease their control over your feelings, and this means that you do not see yourself if you are harmed. In fact, they put parts of themselves on you they don't want to recognize or embrace so that they can assault you with all their suppressed self-hatred. A certain distance is easier to hold. • Select your fight strategically: ensure that you're fighting is wisely selected. Conflicts against toxic individuals take a lot of time and resources. Know that you don't have to fight any fight that you might try. Save the resources instead to look after yourself and maintain healthy relationships. • Understanding the toxic people without giving is: to give and take is the blood of true friendship. Often your friend has a hand, but at the end of the day, it's more or less gone. Not like a toxic person – they take everything they can from you, as much as you can. When they find out, you can't help them, they might leave you. It's not easy to leave you at first, because I believe that you are getting used to it and that you don't feel well at all. • Toxic people enjoy victimization: the toxic revelation that the world is the victims. They are searching for ways to feel exploited, marginalized and excluded in ways that are obviously not what they love. It's either good or bad, they want publicity. It may take the form of explanations, streamlining or blame for others. • Just finish it: you realize that all your positive and peaceful mind have been sucked into it when you have had enough of it.. Call it a stop. Just stop. Maybe that person was your best friend, but you know he was a snake of your life and he was dismissive of all those good moments. You can see that the other person uses the defects in order to find ways to make use of them against you while in a toxic relationship. However, you can significantly minimize the risk of this occurring by actually trying to learn yourself and recognize your weaknesses. Balance them against your abilities, assume that you are a decent person and make commitments to emotional and physical autonomy. The instant enjoyment of the friends that are disguised as parasites is not appropriate. You never are too old to get things started again. In this respect, surround yourself with extremely optimistic individuals, and realize that this ambiguity and unjustified criticism is nothing more but a masquerade compliment when others criticize you sometimes! It is time to chop away the friends of your life from covert parasites.