If you find yourself feeling disgruntled and unhappy with a friend's behavior more often than not, you may be in a toxic friendship. Not sure if your other half is guilty? Obvious signs include... 1. They're always putting you down. Whether it's a constant sarcasm or a backhanded compliments or honestly just straight up insults, if a "friend" is always bringing you down, BIG RED FLAG!!! 2. They make you feel defensive or guilty about your decisions. If you find yourself talking less and less about the things you love and what you hope to do in the future with this person because they always judge or criticize you and make you feel bad about it, beware. 3. They make you feel nervous. Whenever you're hanging out, face-timing, on the phone, you just always feel bad or a niche. 4. You're always there for them, but they're never there for you. This is self-explanatory. Whenever they are struggling or having a hard time you always reach out and try your best to help. But when it's you that needs a helping hand, they're nowhere to be found. 5. You just think about them while reading this. Just remember that it's not about the length of friendship or how long you've known for each other. People change. If he/she is not the same person you befriend with and is harming you, intentionally or not, cut ties with them. Quality over quantity, always.
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