Love yourself more, do not live what other people wants you to be. Accept yourself, don't be afraid to show people who you really are, because loving yourself is the first secret to achieve happiness. Be proud of everything you do as long as you don't hurt anyone.  And lastly, always remember that be there to other but don't leave yourself behind. 

I recommend you to listen to BTS songs, because I promise you, it will teach you to love yourself.