Love is indeed two-way traffic because that's the only time that both of you grow and unlock another level of maturity. Have you ever experience a relationship wherein you are the only one in love? I mean s/he didn't care at all, that whatever you do it seems that it doesn't reach his/her level of expectations? if you say "Yes", then welcome to the club of martyr 2020 edition. I can't say that it is not happening because it's the real deal nowadays, we still have a bunch of people who play this kind of role wherein no matter how hard other person shows that they don't care they pretend and still work their asses off to be part of that person's life, I mean there is nothing wrong with that and for me, it is totally fine but in the process, you will find yourself loosing your confidence, the way you see life and your self-worth. I had this kind of experience before wherein I can say that I can do whatever she asked me to do if she wants me to eat anything or pick up something I will do that with no hesitation and it took me two years before I realized that it is not worthy of my time, that I am losing money, energy and self-worth. I want everyone to understand that it is okay to love someone, to be in love and to feel the most exciting, weirdest feeling that you could ever imagine however you need to leave at least 10 percent out of a hundred percent of your time so that when you feel like you are worthless to him/her or they are just using you for their own benefit then at least you have 10 percent to revive yourself, continue where you left off and move on. Look for someone who knows your worth and once you find that guy or a woman, don't let go and make the most of your relationship with him/her and make sure that you have proper communication to settle whatever issues you may have. #mytenpercent #loveinthemostunexpectedways
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