Indeed, life is not a race. Wherever you are in life, its meant to be that way. Even if people your age already have stable jobs while you are still struggling to graduate, do not hate yourself. Do not hate yourself for struggling. Do not hate yourself for making bad decisions in the past!

When you see your friends slowly reaching their success, be happy for them. they may be there first, but someday, with the right attitude and determination, you will reach the top too. Just focus on being a better version of yourself. Trust the process.