Stop Making Everything an Issue

What do you think makes us, people, dislike and hate each other? What do you think most of the teens nowadays, even the elders, do when they hear just a little piece of information about someone? Not to mention, they haven't heard the whole story yet. A quote says, "Sometimes, the easiest way to solve a problem is to stop participating in the problem." That is true! You took part in someone else's problem, not because you want to help them but because you just want to make an issue and make everything a big deal.

This is one thing that makes a person toxic. Making everything an issue and spreading rumors which none of are true. Doesn't contribute anything but adds more problem and degrades someone's reputation and dignity. What could a person possibly get from spreading rumors? Does that make you feel happiness, satisfaction, awesomeness, great, a noble? Well to tell you honestly, you just become a toxic person. You may think, "Ow, I did not become a toxic instantly by just making a certain thing an issue and spreading rumors for only one time," but sure you did. Yes, it is one time but it counts as toxicity.

Why don't we try to change this kind of behavior in ourselves? If you're really up for a change in yourself to not be more toxic than you already are, start by stop making everything an issue and making it a big deal. For an instance, you saw two of your classmates went home together yesterday. You were like, "Hey, I saw you two together yesterday. Are you guys dating? Everybody, A and B are in a relationship!" Let's stop doing things like this. Maybe the reason why they went home together is they live in the same village, or they're partners in one of your school projects whatsoever.

If you don't have anything to do in their lives, especially won't do anything good to those people, then don't indulge yourself and stop interfering with their lives because in the first place you don't have to do anything with it. That's their own lives and let them be because interfering in someone's life doesn't make you look cool. You're only humiliating yourself and by the end, the shame is on you.

Instead, focus more on yourself, in your life. How can you make yourself better and contribute to society? How can you make your life worth living? Find your passion, your love for things. Learn how to love yourself, know your worth, find your limit while enjoying, being grateful, and appreciative. Isn't it more productive and lovely? You get to know yourself and changed for the better, and not interfering with other people's lives when you are not involved in it. I challenge you to do the same with yourself, stop being toxic, and focus more on your life.

"A change in bad habits leads to a change in life. " -Jenny Craig

- nekkooolai 🖤✨