When I realized that most of us after a failed relationship desire for closure in the hopes of properly ending a relationship or help facilitate recovery of a broken heart. Closures can be that face to face conversation, that long text message, that email but closures can also be the silences, the non replies, the empty responses. You see, our exes owe us closure to help us move on but do you really expect that to come from a person who hurt you? Who caused you pain? Nobody owes you that but yourself. You are in-charge of your own process of healing and recovery. If you love yourself enough, if you respect yourself enough to realize that you deserve nothing less, you will be able to heal, move on without hearing from them. You are in-charge of your own heart. Protect it.